In an age where advances in modern medicine occur every day, it is easy to forget science and technology cannot change one fact; there will be a time when death is inevitable. At any time, people may be unable to communicate their health care choices as a result of an injury or serious illness. However, these choices can be addressed long before they are needed. Living wills and death plans allow us to lay out these needs in legally binding documents to help our friends and family answer difficult questions based on our values and desires. This type of planning is simply smart life-planning and allows a person to make his or her wishes and care preferences known. The process of "advance directive" planning encourages:

1) Understanding and identification of possible health care choices

2) Talking about these decisions with loved ones and doctors

3) Putting plans in writing in case they are needed.

When we have a plan, our wishes are more likely to be honored and our loved ones will thank us. Whether 30, 60, or 90 years old, these conversations are crucial and are truly a gift. We prepare for everything in life: college, marriage, a baby, and retirement, but often leave out the end of life. Directives for the state of Idaho are available online or at Hospice of North Idaho's website, www.honi.org and can be printed out and completed including a POST (Physician Ordered Scope of Treatment). It all starts with a conversation.