Recently we moved our office location. We were very excited about our new location and were looking forward to the move. Although we wanted to move, it was very stressful, exciting, scary and fun. If we were feeling these emotions and we wanted to move, imagine what it would have been like if it was something we didn't want to do.

Throughout this entire experience I kept thinking about seniors when they move to either assisted or independent living facilities. I know there are some seniors who look forward to this move but there are a lot who don't want to leave their home. Their home is filled with memories. All of their children grew up in their home and they know all the children who have grown up in the neighborhood. They feel comfortable and really don't want to leave. Imagine what it's like for them.

I decided I would investigate how to make the move easier and found a few things that I was able to relate to in our move.

Help them make a list of items to take, items to stay in the family, and items to be sold or donated. Remember each item may have a story. Be patient if they want to retell them. Clean as you go and don't criticize their cleaning habits or the condition of the house. Remember cleaning may be difficult for them and they may feel self-conscious about the condition of their home. Start in a room that doesn't have strong sentimental attachment is best. Starting in the basement or attic may not be a good idea. These rooms are full of pictures and memories.

Get their input on setting up their new apartment. If that's not possible, set it up with familiar items. Bring their favorite recliner, pictures, etc. When they wake up in the morning, what is the first thing they see. Make sure they see it in the new apartment. If they get up and go to the left to the bathroom, set up the new apartment so they do the same. (Remember what it's like to wake up in a hotel room and try to orient yourself to find the bathroom in the middle of the night.) Try to set up everything as close as possible to their existing home. Avoid putting rugs down that can become a tripping hazard or items that sit in the middle of the room. Set up the kitchenette as close as possible to their home kitchen.

Make sure they are familiar with the new location. Show them where the thermostat, first-aid kit, fire extinguisher and nearest exits are located. Write down important numbers. Show them where their medication is stored.

This will be a very emotional experience. Be patient and understand that change at any age is uncomfortable and they will need your love and support to get through this experience.

For questions regarding home care, contact Home Helpers at (208) 769-9560 or go to www.CoeurdAleneHomeCare.com.

Listen to Connie Clark this Saturday at 4 p.m. on KYMS 89.9 FM.

Connie Clark is a Certified Senior Advisor at Home Helpers/Direct Link. She can be reached at (208) 769-9560 - North Idaho or (509) 999-8440 - Spokane.