Rocky past, bad breakup haunt single dad
Coeur d'Alene Press | UPDATED 8 years, 1 month AGO
After housing paperwork fell through and the mother of his children sent him packing, one single dad is struggling to recover his life.
"She broke up with me after nine years and kicked me out," the dad said.
They were living on the streets and working on securing a low-income housing unit. He was supposed to be left off the agreement because of his work situation, but it all became a mess and his significant other decided she'd had enough.
"It started out I went and got a title loan on my car so I could put a roof over my kids' head," he said, explaining they had just been approved for a place. "I was told I couldn't live there because of something that happened eight or nine years ago. Once that happened, my kids' mom said she didn't want to deal with me anymore."
Half of his personal belongings were left in the apartment, where he is no longer welcome. The other half of his possessions, including his grandfather's ashes, were in a storage unit that went to auction.
"I got stuck with nothing," he said. "Now I live in a friend's backyard."
The dad has full custody of his 4-year-old boy while the other two children live with their mom. The dad and son now live in a camper while the dad struggles to provide for the boy.
"It would mean the world to me," he said of giving his little guy a special Christmas.
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