Debra Jo 'Debby' (Darling) Whittaker, 74

Debra Jo “Debby” Whittaker, born April 1, 1952, passed away on February 10, 2026.

Debs grew up in Davenport, Wash., where she developed her love for horseback riding, fishing with her dad, and dancing. Dancing was never just something she did — it was part of who she was. She performed in recitals well into her 40s and carried that joy with her throughout her life.

On September 27, 1975, she married Bruce Whittaker. Together they built a life filled with adventure and years of shared memories. Over the years they traveled to Mexico, Alaska, Canada, Idaho, and Montana — and wherever they went, they fished. Fishing was one of their greatest joys. No matter the location, Debs ALWAYS caught the biggest fish — and she never let Bruce forget it. She proudly credited her success to her “secret sauce,” a little spit on the lure before casting, and she stood by it.

Debs worked for many years in the laboratory at Boundary Community Hospital, where she formed lifelong friendships and valued the people she worked alongside.

She was a talented seamstress with a gift for upholstery and loved being what she called “artsy crapsy.” She was creative and artistic, always crafting something with her hands. She loved to garden, and her yard was her sanctuary. She spent many quiet hours down by the creek behind their home, enjoying the solitude and the sound of the water.

Debs was sweet, loving, and deeply sensitive — known to cry at just about everything. Happy moments, meaningful conversations, proud grandma memories… her heart was always right there on the surface.

She was a devoted wife, mom, and grandma. She is preceded in death by her parents, Joe and Reba Darling of Davenport, Wash. She is survived by her husband, Bruce Whittaker; her daughter, Jenny (Forest) Graham; her beloved grandchildren, Aspen and Willow; and those who truly loved her and remained present in her life. Her loyal companion Bear stayed faithfully by her side until the very end.

A celebration of life will be held on Sept. 27, 2026 — Bruce and Debs’ wedding anniversary. Details will be shared at a later date. 

She will be deeply missed and forever loved.